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February 6, 2020 ·

How to Be Still {even if you don’t like silence}

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Life too busy? Learn 10 ways how to be still, even if you don't like silence. Practicing stillness calms your soul and helps you hear God more clearly.
Is your life full of noise, activity, and chaos? Do you find your schedule packed and hectic? Are you struggling to find peace, quiet, and tranquility in your life? Do you long to hear God’s voice more clearly in your life?

Learning how to be still will bring more peace to your chaos, more calm to your busy. Not only will you calm your heart, but you’ll also learn to hear God more clearly in your life. 

"Be still. In that focus, all else comes into focus. In that rift in my routine, the universe falls into alignment." ~Philip Yancey

Practicing Stillness is Essential to Keep Your Busy Life Focused on God

Most of us are living busy, hectic lives. Too often we push aside stillness and quiet, replacing them with more activity and tasks. I know there’s not much quiet in my house between two active kids, busy school and sports schedules, and the daily tasks of running a family.

Yet, when I don’t take time to be still, I begin to feel run down, exhausted and stretched thin. I feel myself walking off in my own path, rather than walking in lock-step with God.

One of the best ways I stay connected with God is to spend time in stillness. Spending time in the Bible and in prayer are great ways to stay spiritually connected, but all too often these become tasks to complete and I fill the space with my words instead of listening for God’s.

When I take time to be still, though, I focus on not doing, not speaking, not rushing ahead. I sit still and listen. I spend time just ‘being’ with God and He renews me.

Life too busy? Learn 10 ways how to be still, even if you don't like silence. Practicing stillness calms your soul and helps you hear God more clearly.

10 Ideas for How to Be Still With God {even if you don’t like silence}

Stillness is when you step away from the busy of life and connect with God. It’s when you slow down for a few minutes and listen – truly listen – for God’s voice. Stillness is how you stay focused on God’s vision for your life and listen for His direction and guidance. Stillness is how you allow God to calm your restless heart.

If you’re not sure how to carve out this space and time to practice stillness, below are ten ideas to be still and listen to God. Try some of these contemplative prayer ideas today. Renew your relationship with God and calm your weary soul.

1) Find a quiet place and simply sit in silence with God.

Sit in the silence for 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 15 minutes. Use this time for listening prayer.

Resist the urge to fill the space with words. Simply ease into the silence and just be.

Is the busyness of life wearing you thin? Try these 10 ways to practice stillness and reconnect to God with contemplative prayer, listening prayer and more.

2) Do some breathing exercises.

Take the time to pause, breathe, and reflect. As your breath becomes relaxed and steady, settle in and listen.

One of my favorite breathing exercises to help me settle into silence is to count backward from 50. Begin by counting backward from 50, one number on each inhale and exhale. When you get to 20, only count on the exhales until you reach 1.

I’ve found this to bring an extraordinary calm and focus.

Is the busyness of life wearing you thin? Try these 10 ways to practice stillness and reconnect to God with contemplative prayer, listening prayer and more.

3) Take a walk around your neighborhood in silence.

Go for a walk with no music, no telephone, no checking the internet.

Just walk in silence, listening to the sound of the world around you.

Allow your mind to drift into the steady beat of your footsteps and listen for God.

Is the busyness of life wearing you thin? Try these 10 ways to practice stillness and reconnect to God with contemplative prayer, listening prayer and more.

4) Take a long bath.

Play some light music or just listen to the sound of the water. Allow yourself to relax into God’s presence.

As your body relaxes, allow your mind to relax and drift into stillness.

Set aside your own thoughts and to-do lists and just listen.

Is the busyness of life wearing you thin? Try these 10 ways to practice stillness and reconnect to God with contemplative prayer, listening prayer and more.

5) Find a labyrinth near you and walk it.

Walking a labyrinth is one of my favorite ways to be still with God, even in the movement of walking. Allow Him to speak to you as you journey.

If you can’t find a labyrinth to physically walk, you can print one out or even follow one online for a virtual walk.

Is the busyness of life wearing you thin? Try these 10 ways to practice stillness and reconnect to God with contemplative prayer, listening prayer and more.

6) Practice stillness through art.

Coloring and painting are great ways to pray and find stillness as you relax into the movement.

Don’t worry about what you’re creating. Instead, create it as a prayer and allow God to direct your paintbrush.

Is the busyness of life wearing you thin? Try these 10 ways to practice stillness and reconnect to God with contemplative prayer, listening prayer and more.

7) Doodle as you pray.

Prayer doodling is my favorite way to pray through art. Linger over each person on your prayer list, drawing their name on a piece of paper and then doodling all around. Don’t fill your prayers with words, also lean into the prayer and listen.

Is the busyness of life wearing you thin? Try these 10 ways to practice stillness and reconnect to God with contemplative prayer, listening prayer and more.

8) Practice Lectio Divina and listen for God through Scripture.

In your Bible time, take a small piece of scripture, even a single verse and linger over the words.

Listen for how God is speaking to you through that scripture, turning the words over and over in your mind.

Sit still and listen for His words.

In your Bible time, take a small piece of scripture, even a single verse and linger over the words.

9) Practice stillness through music.

Instead of using scripture for your reflection as in #8, use music to enter into stillness.

Close your eyes and listen to it play over and over.

Listen for words or phrases God places on your heart during this quiet time as the music plays.

Allow the ear of your heart to connect to God.

Instead of using scripture for your reflection as in #8, use a piece of instrumental music.

10) Share your morning coffee or tea with God.

Sit in silence as you watch the sunrise or enjoy a beautiful morning.

Get up a little bit early, before the rest of your house, so you can have quiet time with God.

Or, if you’re not a morning person, sit and watch the sunset with God, enjoy some quiet time outside at the end of your day, or lay under the stars.

Instead of using scripture for your reflection as in #8, use a piece of instrumental music.

How Will You Practice Stillness This Week and Reconnect with God? 

Practicing stillness in my everyday, busy life is one of the most essential components of my relationship with God. I need to spend time just ‘being’ with God, to sit quietly and listen, to allow Him to renew my spirit and refill me with energy and inspiration.

When I get too busy and neglect stillness, I can tell. I feel more run down and further from God. 

Don’t neglect stillness in your spiritual life.

Make time for God – not just for talking, studying, and serving, but also for just sitting with him in stillness.

Allow God to fill you back up and speak into your heart.

“In the rush and noise of life, as you have intervals, step home within yourself and be still. Wait upon God, and feel his good presence; this will carry you evenly through your day’s business.” ~William Penn

I’d love to hear from you. How does stillness help in your life? What are your favorite ways to spend time with God?

Life too busy? Learn 10 ways how to be still, even if you don't like silence. Practicing stillness calms your soul and helps you hear God more clearly.

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[This post is part of the Visible Faith series. Click here to learn more about this series on how to live a vibrant, visible faith.]

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  1. bloggerlovestheking says

    April 5, 2016 at 7:09 am

    Kathryn some great ideas. Have used most of them but never the labyrinth, art or doodling. I laughed at that. I’m not artsy at all and doodling while I’m praying would never work. I do lay in bed an pray many mornings.

    • Kathryn says

      April 5, 2016 at 7:24 am

      I had the same thought when I first learned about prayer through art. I’m terrible at art! But it’s actually one of my favorite ways to pray now ?

  2. betsydecruz says

    April 5, 2016 at 8:02 am

    Oh Kathryn, you’re a girl after my own heart! I saw this title at Kelly Balarie’s, and I should have KNOWN it was you! Sharing this later, pinning and tweeting now. So good. I especially like ideas #1 and #8. I really want to grow in learning to still myself before God and LISTEN.

    • Kathryn says

      April 8, 2016 at 5:43 am

      Yes, of course I’m talking about stillness 🙂 maybe because there’s so little of it in my house – ha! Thank you for sharing!

  3. Jeanne Takenaka says

    April 5, 2016 at 11:50 am

    I think seeking stillness is a lost art in our busy, pushing-productivity culture. Over the past few months, as I’m recovering from my ACL surgery, my life has slowed down, and I’ve sought stillness. I’m not always good at it, but I’m trying to be more intentional about this art. 🙂 I love coloring in an adult coloring book and praying.

    Your suggestions are all good. I hadn’t thought about all the different things we can do to get still and listen to the Lord.

    • Jeanne Takenaka says

      April 5, 2016 at 11:52 am

      PS—So glad I’m your neighbor at Holly Barrett’s and A Purposeful Faith blog today. 🙂

    • Kathryn says

      April 8, 2016 at 5:45 am

      Finding stillness is an area where God has parked me for the past year. Guess I really need to slow down 🙂 I’ve loved finding different ways to incorporate stillness into a busy life – and keeping it varied helps me to really focus.

  4. GirlMeetsSelf.com says

    April 5, 2016 at 3:41 pm

    The tagline was perfect for me. Thank you for the great tips! Your friend from #raralinkup

  5. aprogressor says

    April 5, 2016 at 8:46 pm

    I really like this! Really good ideas!

  6. sunSPARKLEshine says

    April 6, 2016 at 5:33 am

    These are such great tips, Kathryn. I do some of these already but I can see myself trying #3 (neighbourhood walk) and #9 (listening to music). I love that there’s something here for everyone and I can’t wait to share this on Pinterest and on my FB page!

    Blessings, my friend!
    Marva | sunSPARKLEshine

  7. BlessingCounterDeb says

    April 6, 2016 at 8:29 am

    Kathryn, These are great tips. I really struggle with stillness. Reading the Word, studying, praying, doing . . . I’m good but being still with God is so hard. My mind always takes off in a million different directions. So, I really appreciate these tips for helping to clear my head so I can just be still and listen. Thank you for this! It blessed me this morning!

    • Kathryn says

      April 8, 2016 at 5:46 am

      I heard someone share recently that she found stillness in the heat and noise of her blacksmith shop. Love that God will find us where we are and in the things that He’s created us to do best.

  8. Michele Morin says

    April 8, 2016 at 6:35 am

    Fantastic Philip Yancey quote! I know that I need that “rift” in order to see the need for stillness. Thank you, Kathryn.

  9. Jill says

    April 8, 2016 at 6:35 am

    So true! I do and encourage others in many of these too! Be still and know I am God! We can’t follow if we don’t listen first! Love this & will share your similar thoughts!

  10. Cate Hoepner says

    April 8, 2016 at 6:46 am

    I haven’t thought of doing most of these! As a Mom to two little men, stillness is a luxury. I’ve been looking for ways to bring more of it into my life. Thank you so much for these tips. I am going to try doodling, though I’m not artistic at all! It’ll be interesting and a fun way to connect with God. 🙂

    • Kathryn says

      April 8, 2016 at 7:12 am

      I hear you on the luxury of quiet time! Often I find if I slow my body down too much, I’ll fall asleep ?. I need more active forms of stillness. Doodling has been the big surprise for me. I’m not artistic at all, but I’ve really found a connection in doodling.

  11. deborahhaddix says

    April 8, 2016 at 7:17 am

    Kathryn, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this! I do believe we may be kindred spirits! These are all absolutely wonderful ways to be still. I’ve been art praying for over a couple of years now and it is one of my favorite ways to be still.

  12. mbethany says

    April 8, 2016 at 2:50 pm

    These are great ideas! I’ve used all of these at some time or another, and walking or music prayers are some of my favorites. Or just sitting in stillness before everyone else gets up! Thanks for reminding me of all these!

  13. Laura says

    April 12, 2016 at 1:37 am

    Hi Kathryn, this is my first time reading your blog. I needed to read this as I am in such a stressful and painful season, I just need quiet. Thank you for the reminder and the tips. I have recently started coloring, it is very relaxing. Thanks again for this simple yet important message. Be still and know that He is God!

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